Happiness and Sadness`

Happiness and sadness are both relative. I can describe my hapinness when I am with my love ones, especially my family--nothing compares with the happiness I feel when I am with them.
It is also a feeling when you made somebody smile by just doing simple things. It is also a feeling when you bring happiness to someone who is sad and lonely. I am happy not because I have something but because I have somebody. My family and my friends are my greatest possessions in my whole life and not the material things I have.
True happiness is in doing a job well, knowing there is a purpose in doing and a benefit in seeking for its fullnes. It is good to feel that what you are doing has a purpose and you can gain something from it in the future.
And your future happiness depends on the choices you make. We are the one making our own future and having a better future reflects on our decisions and choices in life. We must be sure that our decisions could bring happiness to us and to others.
Happiness is a perfume which you can not pour on to someone without getting some on ourself before we can share it with others. It is good to feel that we are a blessing to others because we just made them happy. Happiness is not something earned. It is a by product of attitude. We must have an attitude that reaches out to give and not to wait for something in return. We must serve and care for others, then we will find happiness. Start happy, we will never complete a beautiful day that did not start right.
Sadness on the other hand is the feeling of missing someone special. It is like sky without stars--only dark clouds and a withered moon. It is also like dried river--lifeless. Like falling leaves during autumn--it is blue. The feeling of not belonging in a family--a feeling of loneliness. Like carrying a burden on a shoulder--so heavy and painful. Nobody wants to help. Sadness is unhealthy. Like paralysis, it cripples the mind. Like death, it kills the heart. Sadness is the worst of all illnesses.
Happiness and sadness complete my life. I would never know and feel how happy and sweet my life is, without tasting the bitterness and sadness of it..:-)..:-(